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Why do I always want things to happen quickly for me in life?

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Question - (8 March 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 March 2007)
A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Why do i want things to happen quickly for me in life? When i am relating with someone i want them to meet my demands quickly as well. What's wronG?

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A female reader, AngelofLove United Kingdom +, writes (8 March 2007):

AngelofLove agony auntJust remember somethings in life are worth waiting for.

You probably have less patience than others, not necessarily wrong just different.

The same way you act a certain way which is individual to you, others will act at their own pace.

This is where the compromise comes in, within reason you need to allow others to find their own way.

I am sure that there is something more specif that is bugging you, the more information you are willing to give the more specif comments can be.

Don't give yourself a hard time, life is full of challenges and what matters is how you deal with them in the end.

If you talk openly with the person concerned, perhaps they will better understand where you are coming from.

Good Luck

Angel of Love

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A female reader, aunty t Ireland +, writes (8 March 2007):

aunty t agony auntWhat wrong is you are in a terrible hurry to get through life. Slow down. When you want something and you have to wait to get it you appreciate it more but if you keep getting things as soon as you want them wheres the fun in that. Relax walk through your life take time to enjoy what you are doing here and now.

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A female reader, Bella55 South Africa +, writes (8 March 2007):

Patience, deary. I have the same problem as you.My poor boyfriend has to deal with so much. Hopefully as we grow older it subsides, im hoping

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