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Why do boys my age act so... undignified? - Calling me nasty names, and swearing.

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Question - (4 February 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 February 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

well,I have a question why do boys my age are so unworthy?

See a today this boy named idiot came up to me and said f*** you.i was like what?and he said uhmm i didnt stutter.and then i was like what the hell? and he said did you want me to repeat it?and i was like why the hell is he sayin that to me.i thought he was a nice guy and i was like so shocked.maybe it was because i had an arguement with his friend like last month or something?i dont know but now i know hes unworthy.that son of a gun.is it because i had a fight with his friend that he is trying to get back at me or something?but i asked his friend and he said hes only jokin.

he better be cause i'll punch him so hard that his panokio nose turns into a flat.another problem is that three boys called me ugly and they have said it to my face one behind my back actually i found out from my friend.he supposedly said that i was thirst for him when im not.ewww hes totally ugly and hes very perverted.

the other two ones was when i was in 6th grade and then he looked at me and said you got no ass.i was like what and then he said youre ugly i was arguing with him in the hallways.he looks like a freakin rodant.whats his problem? then 3rd quatar this boy hes in my english class.i was like walking up to get something hes like the one that thinks hes so cool and thinks a lot of girls like him and he said ugly to me.i was so pissed that i was about to wack him and i almost did.

well later on he said sorry not exactly but he said im not going to say it to you anymore.Also a lot of people think im cute.im not tryin to be conceited or anything but most of them that called me cute are asians and the three unworthy guys called me ugly are all Spanish no offense but all i know of all of them is that they only go for their own race.why do they act like that i just dont get it? they're such jerks.oh yeah they say it to other girls too.but please can you tell me why do they act like that?

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A male reader, Moviefan United States +, writes (5 February 2008):

Moviefan agony auntWell you my as well get used to it, ignore them. There will always be imature people throught school and once you get out. Just look for guys who dont do that, and find one who seems to respect females and not sexually bother them. By touching them and what not. Sometimes this can be ok if the girl is enjoying it. But most of the time its not.

I kind of skipped that whole stage luckily but i still dont have very good luck in the love life area. I like someone and they like me but i move to slow and i miss my chance. Just happend recently. And it seems almost all the people who are really into me i have no intrest in at all, its odd.

But yeah just keep looking for guys who dont act like them and seem mature.

Good Luck!

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A male reader, SamuraiRick United States +, writes (4 February 2008):

SamuraiRick agony auntBoys do mature more slowly than girls for the most part. Its normal! And its also the reason girls tend to date older guys. You can't have a normal conversation with someone who blurts out insults for no reason. I wouldn't be surprised if their parents were inbreeders. I thankfully skipped the immature stuff and didnt pull that crap, but my parents raised me right and I have always respected girls...at any age.

So even though you can excuse those idiots who dont know how to behave, I personnally don't. Stupidity is stupidity at any age. There are still some sane guys out there. I was one of them. If you look hard enough you'll find us. Ignore those stupid jerks. If they ever grow up they may regret ever calling you names. They'll be trying to get your phone number and you can respond..."oh yeah, werent you the idiot who called me ugly back then?"

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A female reader, LovelyDove United States +, writes (4 February 2008):

LovelyDove agony aunti had the same problem too when i was your age...boys your age are just well...boys...they will continue to act like that for a couple more years then they will grow up and mature...well most of them at least...

i know it hurts when they are telling you this but don't listnen to them...they don't know what they are doing...maybe the ones doing that to you like you and that's the way of showing it!

i hope this helps a little!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008):

well boys my age are very clueless.cause we boys dont know what we're saying or doing.we just say whats on our mind.i know how awful.but we boys do not fully know how a girl feels.so those boys that your talking about must be some low life immature jerks.well around 10-15 they probably know how to like girls and asked them out but their still immature you know?

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