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writes:I have been out with this guy a few times. He seems like a really good guy and I hope something further will develop. The first two times we went out, we had a few drinks with dinner and ended up kissing a lot on his couch. We then went out dancing and I met his friends who seemed to like me and we kissed a lot at the bar. Then we decided to go out to lunch but he didn't greet me with a kiss hello or goodbye. I ended up just giving him a quick peck on the lips and it felt awkward. Why didn't he kiss me this time if we've already made out so much? He doesn't seem like a player at all so maybe he was nervous or is he just not into me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for everyone's input. Its just that he picked me up in his car and drove me back and I was expecting him to be excited to see me and kiss me. Not like a full on make out session but we didn't even hold hands, arms etc Nothing. Especially after a night of passionate kissing, it just felt strange to me because I am used to men being a little more agressive. He's just a different type of guy I guess, I will have to get used to it.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (14 February 2013):
 I kiss my husband all the time AT HOME.
I may give him a peck hello or goodbye when we meet in public but to kiss him more than that... NO WAY
to me hand holding in public is fine. occasionally arm in arm is ok. a brief hug...ok a peck hello or goodbye OK
to KISS someone like making out in public... in my opinion is disgusting. Kissing like that is an intimate thing that many folks do not want to share with the world. I don't. And I am far from a prude.
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reader, loner35 +, writes (14 February 2013):
Don't read to much into it.Alot of times we over think situations I believe this was your moment.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (14 February 2013):
 Where did you want him to make out with you, at the restaurant ?... at lunch time ?!...
Just so I don't sound like a relic of the Victorian age, let me assure that I have lunch fairly often in places mostly patronized by college students,yet I never see scenes of passionate, abandoned kissing .
To tell you the truth, also kissing " a lot " at a bar sounds a bit ott and goofy personally to me, but , well, a bar, alcohol is involved, social inhibitions lower, it makes more sense.
But , out for lunch ?... Maybe, just if you were two newly weds on their honeymoon ...
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reader, Aunty Medge  +, writes (14 February 2013):
Don't take this to heart :)
Maybe he's realising that it's getting serious between the two of you and he wants to make sure that you don't feel he is trying to rush things.
I don't think you need to worry if he's introduced you to his friends then he clearly likes you, guys seek approval on their partners, from their friends, more often than you realise.
Just relax, be yourself around him and everything will be fine :)
Good Luck
Love Aunty Medge x
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (14 February 2013):
 Lunch is different to after dinner at home on the couch, or going out to a club and kissing at the bar. I suppose if you were to meet for coffee in the morning you'd expect to make out then too?
To be honest I have no idea about whether he's into you or not. Sounds to me like he is in to you. Lets look at the facts...
1) You went out for dinner and drinks, then spent the rest of the evening kissing at his place on the sofa... TWICE
2) He took you dancing, introduced you to his friends, then kissed a lot at the bar.
3) He met you for lunch.
I can understand that. I don't think I'd be kissing and making out over lunch. Looking at the facts here I'd say he is into you. He even introduced you to his friends. If he wasn't into you why would he do that?
Introducing a girl to friends, for me, doesn't happen at all unless I'm really into the girl.
Stop analysing it and just enjoy your time together. Like I said, lunch isn't dinner/drinks. For me, if a girl wanted to make out/kiss over a lunch date then I would hold back. I don't do public displays of affection. Maybe if I was a bit drunk in a late night bar/club but certainly not at lunch or at dinner.
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