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writes:Ok so I will try and make this as short and simple as possible.Me and my boyfriend went out for 5 months, after that somthing came up that made him really upset( it did involve me being a bitch and a half towards him ) . So we broke up.BUT after 2 weeks or so, I talked to him and explained , or tried to explain what made me act like that( I made him cry infront of a lot of people btw) I basically made him really jealous cuz his ex gf was being annoying ( she worked where me and my bf worked , but none of us work there anymore) . I said I was sorry and he said he still loved me and blah blah blah. We were gonna get back together but then his family was all like " you should move on " and "she will just do it again" etc. So he said things didn't feel the same. He ended up rebounding ( he even admits this girl was a rebound) and it was the biggest mistake of his life. This rebound lasted about 3 and halfish months before he realised and thought to himself " wtf am I doing with her" . SO now me and him have been back together for about 5 months since then. Everythings fine , except this rebound girl sent around pics of his dink to everyone . I loled cuz why would u send someone that in the first place! Serves him right. Another thing, his family does like me but I feel like it bothers me underneath still that they were partially the reason as to why me and my bf didn't get back together before he rebounded with this weird girl. I'm ultra confused ! I really do love this guy were like best friends. He even stood up for me when his rebound ex gf would talk about me ( she's jealous of me even though she doesn't know me, we just use to work at the same store ) he was the one that dumped her the same night we got back together again cuz he realised he could never move on. Is this relationship do able? I mean I feel like I have a grudge against him which sucks. I've never been able to not move on from a guy before , if anyone else pulled that crap I wouldn't even give it the time of day. But for some reason I'm willing to make it work with this guy. Idk give me some opinions?
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reader, Jess88  +, writes (30 August 2011):
Ask him if you are the only one he desires. From my experience, if you love this guy for his personality, for what he is and not how he looks. He is the one, but if you are so focused on just looks then you need more time to analyze what exactly you feel. Though I think even if he feels decent enough you should stick with him.
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