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writes:Hi everyone, im really fed up with my boyfriend. H e was out with his friends fri night and he rang me today his phone was on private number. This also happened another time after he was on a night with the boys. With is number being off, i find this really suspicious because i asked him why and he had no answer, he didnt know why he had turned his caller id off. I mean in alfairness like if he had some explanation id say something.I wonder who he was ringing. I do have issues with trust because b4 he gave me a reason not to trust him(emotional rather than physical cheating) That was a night i thought he regretted but now in mot so sure. Im just so sick of this maybe i never forgave him or got my trust back. There just has to be something more to this. I cant turn a blind eye. I dont ever check his phone and i dont even want to start doing that kinda thing. Once id get over...but twice??? And the 2 times after a night out with friends....he must think i was born yesterday Reply to this Question
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 I dont get it. Calling from a private number=cheating? I agree it is fishy and quite strange, but where is the connection to him cheating? Maybe if you had looked through his phone and saw a lot of private numbers in his call history, but how does calling someone with the name private have anything to do with cheating? Maybe I'm just slow but if you could explain it i could probably help better. And you definitely are not over the previous mistrust. Comparing this time to last time shows you are not over it and have not let it go. If he wont even tell you why his phone was on private gives me a feeling of lack of communication and that he may be a liar. And being that your first line was "I am fed up with my boyfriend", you should let him go.
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reader, im here to listern  +, writes (13 April 2008):
if he loves you than he wont be messing the main part of a relationship is trust if you dont have that then maybe its time to move on and im sorry to say if that get away with it once then thay are more likley to do it again. give um an inch and thay will take a mile
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