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writes:hiya im 17 On thurs night i went to a party n got with this guy who i had been talking to for the past 6 months on and off, there being a definate spark. He wouldnt leave my side and held my hand. But was very into 'going somewhere else' if you get my drift which makes me think he's 'using' me. Anyway on saturday night he started a conversation with me over msn but then 5 minutes later he didnt respond to something i said and he was still online. Why would he start a conversation with me and not end it ?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 March 2010):
He could have fallen asleep, or could have been called away and didn't turn his computer off. Though to be honest, he could have said something. So unless he makes a real effort, keep it slow and maybe let him go.
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reader, Sincerely Yours  +, writes (28 March 2010):
 Yeah, some people aren't too bright so maybe he forgot he was talking to you. Maybe he drooled on his keboard and got scared and hid under his bed. Maybe a shiny popup came on his screen and he got distracted. Or maybe he came across some porn and put everything else aside. Maybe he fell asleep or maybe he was drunk. Maybe he had to poop really bad and sat on the toilet for 45 minutes. Maye he suddenly remembered he was dirty and took a shower and or realized his stomach growled and went to make a sandwhich.
Maybe his computer froze up or someone else started having a really, really interesting conversation with him that he just couldn't turn away from. Maybe he got a nose bleed, a phone call, a visitor or a headache and went to go get advil. Maybe he stubbed his toe and rolled around on the floor in agony for ten minutes. Maybe he fell of his chair and got knocked out. Maybe he choked on something and had to run to his parents for the heimlick, or however its spelled. Maybe his favorite tv show came on. Maybe his mouse froze and he couldn't click on the little type box thingy. Maybe he fell of his chair and forgot how to get back on it. Maybe he zoned out for a really long time thinking about your last response. Maybe he couldn't think of what to say next. Maybe he just realized the world isn't flat and went to go process for a while. Maybe his mom called him downstairs and he got yelled at for a while or had to wash dishes or feed his dog. Maybe he did something sinful and stopped to say a really long prayer.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (28 March 2010):
 Maybe he fell asleep or had to go somewhere computter malfunction who knows, im sure if you ask him he will explain, Everyone son msn these days i still cant figure out how it works any oh and to answer the other question of course he wants to have sex with you your a girl hes a guy hopefully. as to him using you i guess it depends on whether you would feel used or not but the whole ordeal.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (28 March 2010):
 he's a playa playa and prolly is after many girls.
if he was sooo into you,he would have asked u out six months ago.
instead....he keeps it casual working his way to your drawers.
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