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writes:Why did he marry me? we both have kid. I have mine full time and he has his 50/50. but he insistes on spending every waking moment with his kids. no matter what. he misses nothing. he is obsessed with their sports, their everything, we never see each other because he is always gone out of town to a baseball tournament, soccer tournament - he goes to everything. It is great, but really??? when mine are with thier father and it is not that often - i say go. i need a break. i just don't understand. he could care less about our marriage. he just wants to be with his kids. why did he marry me??????
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (15 February 2011):
 Or, why did you marry him. Dads are supposed to go to
baseball tournaments, soccer tournaments - it's not like if they divorce and take a new wife, they are not dads anymore .
If you did not want share your partner's free time with anybody, you should have looked for a single, childless carefree guy.
Also, you have your kids living with you full time , but he hasn't . He has them 50/50 , which, since they are not living under his roof, probably means just every other weekend. Which makes 4 days a month. And you are surprised than a man wants to get the most out of his 4 days a month with his kids ? Just because your ex does not show the same dedication to your children, it does not mean that he is right and your husband wrong.
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