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writes:My married online BF of 4 yrs and I had a big fight and I ended my relationship with him. Worst of all, his son and wife knew about my illicit affair with him, an emotional affair, and for the past 6 months we don't have communication.Yesterday, I got an email from him, but it was an email addressed to his son with his attached pictures. I just wondered why would he send me too the email? The son would also see that he sent one for me.I am wondering, why did he do that? What for?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): it was a mistake. If he was trying to initiate contact with you he would have followed up saying he was sorry as a way to start contact again but he didn't.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (10 April 2010):
 Most likely a mistake. Don't answer it, jsut delete it and move on... And... stay away from married guys.. They aren't worth it.
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reader, LoveGirl  +, writes (10 April 2010):
Perhaps a mistake, perhaps deliberate BUT don't fall into the MM's syndrome again. Once was enough and as tisha said why are you putting your real life on hold. This man has a wife, a child so enough said. Internet liasions have caused untold hurt, misery, devastation bec people invest their everything in nothing.you have been given excellent advice so I won't repeat same. Good luck.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (10 April 2010):
 It probably was an accident. It could also be his wife in his account waiting to see if you'll take the bait and then she can pounce.
I'd stay far far away from him. He's married, he was an online-only relationship anyway. I think the real question you have to ask yourself is why are you keeping your real life on hold for something that can never happen? Why live in a fantasy life that causes others pain? If you have issues that is causing you to make poor choices, what steps have you taken to deal with them? Therapy, counseling, volunteer work, real life friends, these are good outlets for you to explore. Living in a fantasy world, online dating a married man, this is a self-destructive path.
I think it doesn't really matter why it happened. I think what really matters is what you choose to do about it.
I hope you make the wise choice, good luck!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 April 2010):
Could have been a mistake. Whatever it was, do not respond to it. Accept it was just a mistake and leave him and remain cut from his life.
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