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reader, liddel  +, writes (20 February 2018):
As others have pointed out, you don't need this guy. The entire situation sounds peculiar. Just walk away and move on.
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reader, N91  +, writes (18 February 2018):
 Good riddance.
Quite clearly wanted nudes so I wouldn't put this one down as a loss.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2018): [EDIT]:
"You're quite naive if you didn't have a clue what that guy was up to."
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2018): You just avoided a troll who wanted nothing more than some nude pics of you. Are you sure you're in your twenties? I would think I was reading a post from a 16 year-old girl.
You're quire naive if you didn't have a clue what that guy was up to. You're quit fortunate things turned-out as they did. There are angels watching over you!
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reader, 02DuszJ +, writes (17 February 2018):
 Because you were being naive.. what do you think he meant by a picture? Obviously a nudey.. so when he didn't get what he wanted he moved on to the next clueless young girl who would give him one..
Look, you really can't be in the age bracket you claim. Either way you are not ready for relationships.. the truth is your naivety and mindset shows a great deal of immaturity.. why not go back to school and better yourself as a person? When you're accomplished as a person and mature you'll attract the right one. You have to become a princess to find your prince ya know
Don't contact him, he's a sleazy wankturd looking for a quick fix
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2018): i find it strange that he said he wouldn’t speak to you until you did what ‘he asked’. Alarm bells would be ringing.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 February 2018):
 My guess? He really DID think you were someone pulling a fast on one him. The fact that you didn't want to send a picture (my guess he DIDN'T ask for anything naughty just a head-shot) made him doubt that you are not making FUN of him, that you could be one of his friends or someone trying to cat-fish him.
Maybe he has had people do this to him before or had friends who talked to someone they thought were a woman and it was a dude or whatnot.
However, if he is THIS dramatic and entitled... Because really WHY would you OWE him a picture? You don't. You are by far much better NOT talking to him.
He sounds pretty young and so do you...
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (17 February 2018):
 You didn't recognize that he was never a friend and didn't see you as one either.
He was out for a good time and was only nice to you as long as he believed he had a chance in getting it. He's fed up not getting results so the mask is off.
He may already have someone else lined up but will keep you around as a side dish if he gets the pictures he wants. Those may start out as harmless but what he really wants are naked pictures.
Block him and don't look back.
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