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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:we got together. The week later he cheated. I didnt know. I was neglecting him cuz i missed my ex. So i believe thats why he cheated. I didnt know he cheated until i broke up with him for different reasons. Now....he wants me back....and he says hes sorry and wants to prove he wont fuck up again. I believe in second chances but....the cheating thing is always gonna be there....i was falling for him quickly and i freaked and broke it off. He texts me all the time and wants to hang out all the time. Right after break up we could barely look in each others eyes. Today we went and sat in the park and just talked and got everything out. He gets my point i get his. Whats ur take? Do u think he just likes trying to get me back and then once hes got me hell break it off? Im trying to figure all this out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2011): There are a couple of reasons why I don't see this working out. For starters, you seem to harbour feelings for your ex which are interfering with your current relationship. That is unfair to your boyfriend.
Secondly, your boyfriend's excuse for cheating on you is a very poor one. A week after you're back otgether and he's already bedding down with another woman.
Obviously neither of you is really ready for a relationship and I suggest you part ways before things get worse.
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female
reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (20 June 2011):
 Hi
do you want to get back with him, regardless of his cheating? if so then agree to take it one step at a time, start from the begining with dating, and see how things go. BUT DONT DO ANYTHING WITH HIM untill your possitive he has changed for the better. Me personally would find it very hard to trust once that trust has been broken, but same as you I do believe in a second chance, but no more than that. If he messes up again I wouldn't look back.
xx
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