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Could this be a rejection?

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Question - (7 December 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 December 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *appybunny_xoxo writes:

On Tuesday my crush sent me a text message.. so we were chatting.. then somehow he finds out that I like him.. it didn't freak him out he just wanted to know why.. so I told him that he is a pretty cool guy.. then he sent me a message saying that he thinks that I am really pretty.. after that I stopped messaging him.. We havent talked since.. Could this be rejection?

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A female reader, dearkelja United States +, writes (8 December 2007):

dearkelja agony auntAre you asking if you rejected him? I think he would interpret that as yes, you rejected him when you did not respond to his text. If you want this relationship to go anywhere you will need to text him back with an apology as to why it took you so long to respond.

If he was rejecting you he would not have replied to your text.

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A female reader, happytochat Australia +, writes (7 December 2007):

I don't think this is rejection at all. Since YOU didnt reply to his text saying he thinks you are pretty he may of thought maybe he freaked you out? Generaly if someone sends you a text and you dont reply, its you turn to make a move, sorta like the ball is in your court basically. I suggest you send a textb ack saying thanks for the compliment, sorry you didnt reply straight away, you had no credit or something...and suggest maybe you two hang out? He wouldnt say you are prety if he doesnt think you are. He dindt contact you since because he was waiting for YOU to contact him back to his message he sent u.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007):

I don't think so, he returned your compliment. Maybe he's a bit shy...just text him once more to see if you get a response, if you do then you know its not a rejection.

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