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writes:My boyfriend and I have been sexual active for a few weeks. but every time i give him a blow job, he just doesn't seem to cum. he has even told me that when he gets home and if he is still hard he can cum there, just not with me. is it me that's the problem, or is it something else?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): Consider doing fellatio on him as an "art". Discover more about the art of fellatio, the more details and techniques you are equiped with the more you can create a "master piece" and he will be grasping for air in awe of the magic of your "artwork".
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): if he is used to it being an opening show for the lead band then he might be used to saving it for a performance....if you catch my drift
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reader, ccomm +, writes (28 October 2008):
Maybe you should ignore the other people said. there are techniques to giving a BJ. There are many techniques that you can use I suggest you read about it on the internet. When I was with my first girl friend she tried and tried but could not make me orgasm. She started to study how to do it and she watched a couple of videos. The next time she tried I had my first oral orgasm in like 30 seconds it was amazing. My favorite is when she pushed down the shaft she rotated her hand counterclockwise and then would just lift up straight and do it over and over. Make sure you get it very wet or use some edible lubricant. Let me know how it goes and always practice safe sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): Could be you, but might not be. My bf seems to be one of the rare guys who isn't all that into BJs...and I know it's not "just me," because he's said he turned them down from other girls he dated as well. Maybe your man has some hang-up about it, who knows. In the meantime, keep practicing if he lets you, and don't sweat it too much...because there's a million other ways you can make him feel good!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 October 2008):
 I think he needs more time :-). There's nothing wrong with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Could be you're trying too hard. I experienced a similar problem a few years back when the girl I was with was so very eager to please, she just went at it with too much gusto. Not pleasureable - in fact a turn-off. Try making it more sensual - most of the pleasure, like all aspects of sex, is in the journey rather than the destination.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Maybe you need just need to give it more time, you cant expect this to happen so fast. be patient
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