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Is he like only using me?

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Question - (16 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *hadowre writes:

Well again,

There is this dude I fancy. He is in a local band in my area, and i found out he likes me! But alot of people say hes a player, and I totally agree with them, he does get around haha. But its little things he does that makes me think that we could go out. Like hes always saying i am his girlfriend and he even introduced me to his sister as his girlfriend!! I heard he said i was unbelievable hot!!! And he always hugs me. I did make out with him last friday, but i am just wondering, is he like only using me? What do ye think??

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A female reader, shadowre Ireland +, writes (17 August 2009):

shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the question

shadowre agony auntOk, you do have a good point! And i havent lowered my standards! I wouldnt for anyone. And what do you mean "Girls need to do more to make a guy deserve them" I dont know what to do.

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A male reader, Heartbroken in love United States +, writes (17 August 2009):

Well lets start with this. How can you be his gf if he hasn't asked you to be and you accepted. He is a player if he says it but never actually made the investment to ask you and give you a chance to deny or accept. Girls need to do more to make a guy deserve them rather than just giving it all to them no matter what. And then letting him get away with all the other things that she doesn't like just cause she is so attracted to him. Have some self respect and set your standards.

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