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We've told each other how we feel and now are feeling worried that we'll lose our friendship or be awkward!

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Question - (16 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *oxy0911 writes:

Me And my friend are close mates and recently went away to devon for a holiday. Since then we have got really close and have feelings for each other. We have both told each other how we feel but are worried that if the realtionship doesn't work we will lose the friendship we have and things will be awkward.

I really like her and she has the same feelings as me but i just dunno what to do, say or act. I am being myself since we have told each other how we feel but i just dont want to move things to quickly but also dont want us to forget what we said.

What to do.. any advice on what to do please i really dunno ?

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A male reader, aaronsaledge Ireland +, writes (26 August 2009):

if u both feel that way go for it and if it doesnt work out then you were both good friends to begin so it shouldn't get awkard afterwards you'll be kicking yourself if you dont at least try

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009):

I just had the same situation and we did take it further but it never worked out we still talk but the friendship is gone and it breaks both our hearts. I tell u this though if you are as good friends as you think it will be special and might last forever its such a great feeling to have your best friend as your bf/gf but really heart breaking when it doesnt work out. I bet you say friends before anything that comes first and ul mean it so much but trust me it breaks our heart to lose the person in your life like that. We still talk but it will never be the same. Tread careful my friend as its a big price to pay it was for me. Good luck

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