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writes:Why are Western men so infatuated with the idea of being with an Asian female and why do you rarely see Asian men with foreign women? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): I find, say a 20 year old asian or European women are much more emotionally and sexually mature than average 30 year old Australian or American women.
In truth, if you walk up to an average non-drunk Australian, American or Philipino woman and try to pick up solely for sex, she will either giggle like a little girl or shoot you down with a discusted look, no matter whether she is interested or not.
Worse yet, if you are friends with them when you suggest sex, they tend not to talk to you again.
Asian and European woman will simply say yes or no, depending on their likes, dislikes, preferences, beliefs, etc. If you were previously friends and they say yes or no, you will still be friends after.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): I have heard asian women are extremely sexual. I agree, men think they are more submissive and will be attracted to that only to find that women are the same everywhere in the world deep down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009): Asian women are very attractive. They tend to be very slim, petite and have those trade mark eyes. Asian women also have an alure of mystery and exotic culture that some men find very attractive as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009):
I'm a western man and Asian women don't do anything for me.
I do find some Asian women attractive, but the fact that they are Asian is not the big appeal.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (11 December 2009):
 One word:
Geisha. The "perfect" woman ( well that was more then one word :) )
I think there is a belief in many men's minds that Asians females are subservient, docile and absolutely without inhibitions.
At least till they get their ass kicked by one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): Not all Western men. Plenty of guys I know don't care for asian women.
About your second question. Of all the dating groups, asian men (and black women) tend to be given the short-end of the stick by the western media. It is sad how they are painted generally. There are good and bad people everywhere but as far as dating hierarchy, it is what it is.
There are huge differences between American-born asian men and asian-born asian men as far as outlooks on certain issues (gross generalization here but I'm speaking general trends).
Physically speaking, asians tend to be shorter/slimmer and that works in favor for women, not so much for the guys.
I dated only one asian guy years ago. He was very driven but pretty sweet and sentimental. His family was very close-knit and I didn't feel like I belong. Didn't help my ego that his sisters were all skinny/high achiever types. I ended it but if I had met him later in life, it might have been different. Only one data point but you asked.
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (10 December 2009):
 My brother in law is Asian. My sister is hispanic.
However I will say Asian women are very attractive. They tend to be very slim, petite and have those trade mark eyes. Asian women also have an alure of mystery and exotic culture that some men find very attractive as well.
I have also heard some men, but very few use this as their reasoning, like them do to their submissive nature. Most Asian women have a stereotype of being timid and submissive towards men, mainly since most Asian countries are very patriarchal with very specific gender roles.
I personally think Asian men, especially from Korea, are very good looking. I have also seen some very good looking Japanese men. My mother always thought I would get married to a Japanese man as I am very facinated by Japan and its culture. But I married Norwegian. My sister married Korean.
HonningKanin
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reader, laura_pops_87  +, writes (10 December 2009):
I dont know if this is similar but I am western (white british) and i love being with Asian men. My ex boyfriend is chinese and i am also dating a chinese guy at the moment. Also into my pakistini friend. I just find all different types of men very interesting. Its not that I dont like british men or white men. I do. But i find all men very exciting and different and i learn more about people this way.
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