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writes:Why do we, and I say we referring to man and women always seem to grab on for the little things we have. And when I say little meaning things or people that are worth nothing. We stay with someone even thought we are not happy because we are scare to be lonely, sad, depressed, bored whatever the case is, we rather have the drama, suffering, ect…..but what about our goals in life, our dreams, our plans. I was up all night this whole weekend and I was thinking that I have put all my dreams in life to the side, because I have been so distracted with failed relationships that I still want to hang on by a threat. Stupid huh, but true. Sometime analyzing yourself is a way to start, and there is no more honest person than your self when it comes to yourself. You just have to be honest and reach deep inside of you to know your flaws, your mistakes and weaknesses. Then after you have analyzed yourself and what is it that you are doing wrong, ask yourself why and how??????? Why do I act like this, why do I do this, what has led me to this path….past traumas, past suffering whatever it is……believe me that when you find some quiet time and do this and find out you will be surprise…….then the hard part comes…..find the strength within you to overcome this…….even if its little, or your friends thinks its stupid if you feel like you need to, do it….No Body but you knows your torment or inner battles of your spirit and soul. Find the time and peace to fight and overcome this. Think positive, love yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): Thanks Tammye,
That was so beautiful, and a timely reminder for me personally.. I will do anything other than self analyse, I will clean the walls, dust the floor, and find anything and everything to keep me occupied. It's only when things reach a crisis point, that I finally sit down and look deeply and honestly at myself and my life. Then I forget about it until the next problem hits. Perhaps its human, a form of self-protection or delusion to want to avoid doing this. But thank for the reminder, I'll think about this and put it on my list of things to do, sometime next week, next month or never.. :^(
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (10 September 2008):
 Hi tammye, I hope that writing this article helped you and that you are at the positive place. Don't be afraid to ask for support from people who love you when you're going through a rough time. No can know what's going on inside our heads, but other people can provide comfort and some outside strength, if you're willing to call on them.
Take care.
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