A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:all of a sudden i feel all my brother's friend are trying to hang out with me, date me, or etc. i dont know whats going on. what should i do? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): the attention is good, any girl would like the attention. one of his friend liked me, but i told him no, he understood and is ok with just being friends and going out on friend-dates. that's what i do with my guy friends, go on friend-dates. its pretty fun.
i have another one of his friends asking if i want to go bar hunting with another of my brother's friends but i said no. i truly dont trust this one. i told him he cant have my number, i told him its not right.
i believe that if it was the scenerio where i loved his friend and his friend loved me, my brother would understand and let it be. he would talk to him, be straight up. as long as im happy, he would be ok.
A
male
reader, dirtball +, writes (10 November 2010):
 That depends. Do you like it? Do you want it to stop?
If you like it, maybe take them up on the offer of a date, just don't sleep with them.
If you don't like it, then tell your brother. Being that you're his sister, and they're his friends, you're off limits unless he gives the ok. At least that's how it has been in my experience.
There is also the possibility (especially since they're all friends) that there is some kind of bet on who you'll choose. They're trying to pluck the forbidden fruit!
Is your brother younger or older? If he's younger, it could be that his friends have gotten to the age where they are horny teenagers. If he's older, I'd think the bet is a likely scenario.
...............................
|
