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*oftballplaya
writes:okay, well my problem is that me and my bf broke up like 2 weeks ago, but thats beside the point. He told me that once he gets school and baseball fixed (we broke up due to him not focusing on school work and feelings did change for us) we are 14.. but he said that we will probably end up going back out when summer is over because we cant hang out during summer because sports preoccupies both of our lives. I believe him and we are still friends but i have girls saying that he likes this girl and that girl and that we won't go back out..very negative, he never lied to me. So why are these catty bitches gettin on my shit?!Honestly it's getting on my nerves so badly and it hurts me in a way. what do you think all this drama means??god blessxox
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reader, rcn +, writes (26 April 2008):
 There are two types of bullies. Men, who do so physically, and women who do so mentally. Let these girls know, if he makes that choice, you'll know when you see it. Until then, they need to worry about themselves and not so much with what you're doing or this boy is doing.
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reader, NAty08 +, writes (26 April 2008):
ok hey look i know what your feeling right now...
it happened to me before...
he told me that we were going back together...but it wasnt becuz of sports it was just soemthing else..after that chicks started telling me he was dating otheer girl while i was waiting for him...i trusted him so much that i knew it was lie but you never know it might be true the good thing is by haivng that trust you can go far...
me and him are a year already together we have our ups and downs but itsok ..life is a roller coaster...
just try and talk him lets what he says...
stay away from drama...dont let people brain wash you...
xoxo write back
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (26 April 2008):
softballplaya is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you so much, your advice was great and helped me out
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (26 April 2008):
 It means they are teenage girls. All girls gossip. Most likely there is no truth to it. Why would he say you would get back together if he likes another girl? He would probably just date her... right? Or that's what common sense would tell us. Ignore them and trust him. You said he has never lied to you. Trust your heart and your instincts, do not believe anything girls tell you until you have proof to back up their claims. Most likely they are jealous as most girls are like this. Next time they want to tell you about your relationship, reply "we know what is going on with our relationship, thanks for the concern" or your variation, and change the subject. It should get the point across that you don't want to hear their shit.
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