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anonymous
writes: Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we love each other very much. we are both at uni and we find it hard to see each other. He doesnt have his lisence but if he did he couldnt afford a car anyways so to see him i pick him up from uni some days. Im always up for seeing him but he says he needs time to spend with his mates and on uni work. now we only see each other only once or twice a week and when we do see each other we just hang out at home.I feel sometimes that its just too hard to organise our time to see each other. How can we organise to see each other more often and things to do other then sitting at home? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell its been a few weeks since and i still only see him once a week and its just for dinner or something. but he still finds time to hang out with his mates and get high whenever they ask. i complained n said wow u can see ur mates the same amount as ur gf and so he has told me he will see me more now...but still nothing different just hanging out at home n having dinner....
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reader, bfly36 +, writes (26 April 2008):
Let him know you care about him and miss him with out nagging, men hate that!! Maybe you can plan something like a picnic or a movie with him. Alot of men get into a rut when they get used to being with a person, they get comfortable and at that age yes they like hanging out alot with there friends. Try this first and then post back what's up.
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