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writes:I am in love with this guy. Simple, right? Wrong. I see him 6 days out of the whole year. I gave him my e-mail address last time I saw him, but he hasn't e-mailed me yet. I never got his e-mail address. I told him that I love im. He didn't talk to me until I asked him what was wrong and he said that we were too young. Now it's six months later and I still cry myself to sleep sometimes. I don't know why I'm crying or if he loves me or not. I'm new to this whole boyfriend-girfriend thing. Do you think he loves me? And why am I crying so much over him? Reply to this Question
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reader, cdjudd +, writes (28 January 2009):
It's understandable to feel emotionally tortured and confused. But based off your age I wouldn't let it get to you. This happened to me when I was younger and I felt like I would never be the same, but time healed that wound. The best thing to do is realize you have done everything you can and have been openly honest with him. If you aren't getting any sort of attention now, chances are you wont. Remember to always look out for YOUR well-being first, not his. Best of luck.
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reader, didda123  +, writes (28 January 2009):
 You really need to let this go, it is going to do you know good at all.
You need to concentrate on your friends and make an active social life for yourself which will take your mind off him.
You are wasting energy on this guy when you could be out there meeting new ones but you need to work on yourself first your self esteem is low because of this.
If he was interested he would have been in touch and i am sure you know this, you are better than him and deserve better treatment and why would you want this sort of relationship anyway if you can only see him 6 days out of a year when you could find a lovely local boy who you can see all the time and would really treasure you.
I know it is very upsetting for you that this boy is not returning your affections but he is really not worth the trouble he is putting you through, forget him and move on.
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