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*aBelle
writes:I quite like this guy he happens to be my close friends brother.When at my friend’s birthday last year we cuddled a little, like with my head in his lap and him stroking my arm playing with my hair.Ever since iv liked him but didn’t think much of it as he is my friends brother and i don’t realy see him often or at all.Last weekend my friend invited to me a family party we went to hers first and her brother and his friend came over and we just had a laugh and talked, this is the second time id met her brother but it felt like we had known each other for ages. I didn't even entertain the thought of anything happening between us, it wasnt something that occured to me as i didnt think he would be in to me anyways.We all went to the party and it was so much fun, me and her brother took lots of pics of us together, even a cute one with his hand kind of cradling my face.We went back to my friends brothers as it was closest and we were all pretty drunk.My friend and his friend went to bed and we stayed up on the couch in his living room listening to music and talking about everything and anything, somehow we ended up lying on the sofa together cuddling and talking. It was really nice. Then we kissed a lot. I asked him if he was just kissing me or did he actually like me and he said he did like me.I also gave him options to leave by saying that he could join his friend if he wanted that he didn’t have to stay with me and he declined i asked again later on and he laughed saying he was fine where he was.We fell asleep together occasionally waking up to kiss.He was so affectionate, cuddling me and stroking my arm and back and pulling the blanket over me if he thought i was cold.Then later on he couldnt sleep and then i started to shiver, so he got up and said i should slip in to bed with his sister as i was cold. ( was that him getting rid of me? he did it in a nice way and we were both super sleepy)And that was it.In the morning his sister wanted to leave and the boys hadn’t got up yet so i didn’t get to speak to him.I told his sister that we kissed and she wasn’t too impressed at first which i understand but by the end of the day she seemed ok, it was awkward when it was mentioned but she didn’t seem annoyed at me instead making jokes about it. I do understand that its her brother but i let her know that i do actually quite like him.So now its been a couple of days, i didn’t get her brothers number as we left in the morning but im assuming if her brother does actually like me then he would have asked his sister for my number..??I haven’t heard anything from him so is it safe to assume that he isn’t in fact into me then?Im not sure what his etiquette towards girls is so i don’t know how to take the lack of contact...I don’t want to ask his sister as i don’t want things to be awkward between us as i love her to bits..Is there anything i can do?He is the first guy iv liked in a long time and i realy liked that night it felt great. He seemed to like me but then again we were drunk and he is a boy so perhaps im mistaken..???Do u think he likes me or am i just being stupid?Anyone have any good insight...im aware this is boring but i cant be subjective which is why im here.Also if he doesnt in fact like me then why behave like that or did he just think he liked me as he was drunk?Thanks in advance...So sorry about the length!!
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reader, MaBelle +, writes (28 January 2009):
MaBelle is verified as being by the original poster of the questionaww thanks, i apprciate that!
I realy hope he likes me?
argh...iv no idea how to have it confirmed as i dont see him often...but whats meant to happen will happen and all that..
Thanks again!
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reader, Podge +, writes (28 January 2009):
 Awh that is so cute. i dont know about your friends brohter but for me i have to really like someoe to cuddle them i feel its a bit weird otherwise. If he thought of you as nothing and he was drunk he may of tried to sleep with you. So you know he respects you right. So yes its very safe to assume that. The person im with now we started off cuddeling and talking and weve been together for 9 months now. Maybe the whole bed thing was because he thought that if you two slept together the whole night something sexual might of happend, which he doesn't want because he respects you too much to do that so early. also im sure your friend would of been angy with him if he slept with you so earlyhope that made sense, good luck!
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