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writes: I dont no whether to beleive my long term boyfriend....or the 'girl' .My boyfriend told me that this girl has liked him for a long time, but my boyfriend had chose my over her, she now tells all her friends that my boyfriend has been texting her telling her he likes her and my boyfriend says shes making it up because he wouldnt go out with her.I know he loves me and i really love him we have been going out nearly a year now and i dont want us to split up but im just never going to know the truth and i dont no what to do..........
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (17 December 2006):
 Here's what you do. Let this subject drop for a week. By then, he's bound to have texted that other girl agin (assuming he did in the first place, which I really doubt!). Then take a look at the sent messages folder on his mobile phone. You'll know for certain. I'm pretty sure he didn't send her any messages. And although the snooping isn't good, its the only way to be sure.
Look at the snooping this way: if he's doing wrong, then you found the truth. If there's no evildoing going on, then atleast your mind is at rest. Besides, after dating for so long and if you're real close, he wouldn't even mind. I know if my girlfriend went through my messages, I wouldn't care at all
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reader, guylostinlove +, writes (16 December 2006):
Who's the other girl to you?
If he's been your boyfriend for that long, believe the boyfriend. Has he done anything to give you any reason to believe what that girl says? Human nature is full of jealously and contempt. Sounds like the other girl is just jealous he's going out with you.
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