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writes: I told her to stay away from me, but i like to offer her a gift from the xmas so that she will not think i stopped the relationship because i dont want to get her a gift. Hello dearcupid, I being dating out a girl for some months now, but I find out that she were cheating on me, through I have told her that i want to end the relationship which she came begging me to please forgive her, though I know even when I take her back she will still keep cheating on me. Now I have eneded the friendship with her, but I wanted to get her a gift for the xmans so that she will know I did not stop the relationship for no reason, cox she is thinking I never want to get her a gift on this xmans that is why I ask her to stop the friendship with me.please help me, is it really proper for me to get her a gift? please help me cox i am really confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006): Oops, I meant to continue by saying that is only IF I already have a gift for her... Otherwise, no. She would already have broken out non-verbal automatic emotional contract with me at the moment I find out about her dishonorable deeds towards me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006): If I already got a gift for my gf, and she cheated on me, I would never go as far as breaking it. That's way too petty for me. Instead, I would leave it at her door anyway, and hopefully never hear from her again, because in the end, I would know that throughout the entire relationship, I did the 'right' things. My conscience would be good.
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reader, guylostinlove +, writes (16 December 2006):
Hard to say.
I'm the vehement and vengeful type when I get hurt.
If my girlfriend cheated on me and I had a gift ready
for her ... I'd probably break it and send it to her. :-x
Though, that's probably not the right way to deal with the situation. So, I guess ... let it stay that way ... you might as well leave her out of your life/picture. Let her think whatever she wants to regarding you and the gift. You have no obligations to her after what she did to you. Save the $ for your next girlfriend.
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