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writes:EX ISSUES!! OK me and my man been talkin for 2yrs 1/2 and before he went with me he went out with this gurl name Ashley* and Ashley is his sister best friend. They went out for about a 1yr 1/2 and he said he thought he loved her but found out he didnt when he met me. Well she was 15 and he was 17 at the time now she is 18 and him 20.. but she spends a night over his house and be there all the time cause she is "so-called only there for his sister". Well i met her and she asks kinda funny towards me i get a "I dont like u vibe" from her. This is really makin me devasted at the fact she is always around. They broke up cuz she cheated on him sometimes i still think he have something for her.. Am i overreacting?? Is this something i should worry about?? Please i need advice be4 i do something stupid!! like breakup with him or fight her..........
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reader, Smiler +, writes (1 June 2006):
 Hey there
Well sweetie we have all been there where you are right now the jealous of the ex thing, its a hard thing to deal with but i'll try and help you out as much as i can ok... fistly you have no need to be paranoid sweetie don't doubt yourself why would he wanna cheat with her when he already has you my man invented a saying for me cause i used to be just a jealous as you when we hooked up he used to say why would i want hamburger when i have steak at home!!!! i think this applies to you no your not a piece of meat lol... the way i thought of that was why would he want 2nd best when he has the best at home already! my advice to you honey would be lighten up a little ease of the jealousy thing it wrecks your head been there done that brought the t shirt concentrate on showing your guy you are super confident and not at all worried about him cheating nothing could be further from your mind show him that you trust him and know he won't be strayin back to this ex.... and as for fighting with her sweetie trust me she ain't worth your energy rise above it ok bite your lip and concentrate on enjoying your man and your relationship ok you'll feel much better for it....
I hope my advise helped you a little and good luck... if you ever want to chat or just more advise i'm always here ok
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, camille  +, writes (1 June 2006):
 1. Who is he with? YOU so you shouldn't have anyhing to worry about.
2. She IS his sister's friend so you can't expect her to give that up because of him.
3. If you don't trust him, why not?
When she's around, just be yourself, be nice to her. Don't give ANYONE reason to think you're jealous or causing rifts or you will give her ammunition (IF she is still interested in him that is & she might not be). They were young when they were together and you've been with him for longer. Sort out your negative feeling or it WILL end up in tears....YOURS!
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