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Which sexual orientation am I???

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Question - (15 May 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

my problem is complex, to me anyway. i have no idea what i am supposed to tell people when they ask for my sexual orientation. i love the female face and the female body, however, i don't like the female sex organ. i don't like men, however, i do like the male sex organ. what am i?????

-clueless

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A male reader, crazybeast United Kingdom +, writes (16 May 2010):

crazybeast agony auntwith this sort of situation it would be hard for you to run a life of being straight, if you fell in love with a women and you couldnt have sex with her there wouldnt be much future... you could very well be gay since your sexual preference is the male genitals but not the male form.(thats what makes this tricky)

Bisexualty could be another likely option(even tho i dont believe in that sexuality) since you like different things from different genders.

Bi-Curious, i think, is the most probable.

I say this because a friend of mine is gay but only likes a womens body, this was due to religious views that was forced strongly that said he had to get married and have children with a women.

There is nothing that determines your sexuailty but i do hope you find resolve this issue.

From (G)Callum x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010):

I have the same problem. I'm a girl and I'm very attracted to guys and their bodies and faces but when I have have the choice between a vagina or penis...well, I wouldn't turn down a penis but I prefer the female sex organ. I, in my opinion, don't think I'm a lesbian at all, I tell people I am straight. But for some strange reason, I think having sex with my own gender sounds more fun, like a friend with benefits or a sex buddy. Maybe I really am bisexual. Anyways, when I read your question, it sounded to me as though you would be considered bisexual.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010):

Bi, possibly, also possibly just a very freaked out straight guy, and possibly gay.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010):

Well if you dont like the females sexual organ, and you like a mans . And you are a man . You are gay :)

-Dont feel bad about this though . It is what your adapted to and is completley naturaul

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