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writes:How do you know whether to follow your head or your heart?I'm a 23 year old gal, I like this girl I met a few weeks ago she seems cool, don't know much about her but my head tells me she seems nice, we joke together and flirt a bit and she's hot. She's a few years old than me. On the other hand is a woman I've known for years but I'm only now getting to know the real her...her last relationship broke up a few months back and we've been more flirty....but maybe she likes the attention as she's at least 15 years older than me. My heart tells me she's perfect.Which girl do I persue and which path do I follow? Plus how on earth can I find out if either are willing to dip a toe in the lesbian pool?Help!
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reader, DV1  +, writes (11 July 2013):
 Why not just go out on a few dates to figure out what you're really looking for? Maybe take some you time and figure out what you want out of your life, and what kind of girl will by your side while you try and get there...
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reader, lilly123 +, writes (11 July 2013):
 As a newly single 23 year old bi woman (was with a woman for 2 years last) i am finding that i am dipping my toes in the lesbian and straight pool at the moment and now i am sinlge all these older people seem to be acctracted to me so the age thing is a factor because they do like attention it makes them feel younger in some weird way( i hope nobody takes offence to that lol) but you honestly just dont know these days unless you make a move or ask that person, clear your mind for a second and ask yourself if you could only have one or you were stuck on an island which would it be and go with that one. Sexuality these days is more fluid than ever so just put it out there and if nothing comes of it then move on and find someone else :)
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