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writes:What's the best way to watch a movie with two people that obviously have feelings towards one another but nobody's made a move yet: in a theater or at the guy's house? I'm thinking the guy's house because we'd have a chance to talk and watch the movie. Unfortunately the guy is really shy and quiet, so how do I subtly tell him I would like to watch a movie at his house without sounding pushy and scaring him?
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (4 March 2009):
 If he is shy, at his place. But if you want him to think that he made the first moove, thus to give the appearance that he is more "confident", then your place will be better.
Tell him you have several movies you'd like to see, but cannot make up your mind. Rent (or buy) several movies of different genres, let him choose which one he wants to watch.
Dim or turn off the lights to make it even more like in the movies. Have some pop corn too. ;-)
Horror movies may be fun because you can hide your face on his chest when you are scared. Pro bably would not finish watching the movie after that though ... you'd be too busy making out LOL
Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): I think his house for sure! That way you can cuddle up on the couch together. And... one thing can lead to another. I would bring it up by saying that you would like to spend time with him, but would prefer a quiet night in. Just the two of you. Then suggest dinner and a movie, or just the movie. It doesn't sound pushy, it sounds like you want quality time with him, which you do. Best of luck! Let me know how it turns out.
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reader, Shipwreckd +, writes (4 March 2009):
 Location doesn't matter. If you like him, pony up and make the first move. He's not moving on you BECAUSE he's shy and quiet.
Just do it. You'll be happy that you did.
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