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*leeplessLullaby
writes:Hey, I've been with my boyfriend for six months and he promised that when he had the money, he'd take me out on a date. I've only ever been on one date with him; it was to the cinema, I paid. The other day he asked me where my ideal date would be. I don't trust many people, so he's my first boyfriend and I've never really been on an alone date apart from the cinema with him. He won't want to spend much money because he's.. well, like that, I guess, and I have no idea at all. It's really cold this time of the year so it would have to be indoors. Please help me :) Could you please give me some suggestions? :) Thanks for reading, Jess x x
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reader, Nobodies Perfect +, writes (1 April 2010):
Right Jess here is what I would do, the fact that you have only been on one date in the six months you have known him is quite worrying, and the first date you paid for. I strongly believe in going dutch the first time, and this should be agreed before the date starts it is quite an akward thing to discuss as most discussions about money usually are, however you are only young and dates that you pay for should really be saved until you are a bit older and are out in the world making money, this boy you are dating seems to me to much of a child and not really interested if he was he would have came up with a date to take you on himself especially in six months he should have learned what you like and dislike, if he is to cheap to pay for a date suggest something that is free like maybe a tour somewhere, where you can both enjoy each others company, but to be quite honest you could do better, six months one date your out of pocket and he has not made an effort is he really worth it, this is what you should ask yourself luv Nobodies Perfect xo
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reader, SleeplessLullaby +, writes (1 April 2010):
SleeplessLullaby is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks, I think? And it was just because he was busy on certain days or he didn't have enough money or he didn't know where we should go. Which is why I'm asking the question? :S
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reader, SleeplessLullaby +, writes (1 April 2010):
SleeplessLullaby is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your advice, I think. It's just that he never had the money/ didnt know where to go :S
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): how about an arcade or something similar. You can get as many tokens or quarters as you can afford, then hang out. Many of them have laser tag which is alot of fun.
Have you thought about getting a group of friends to go in together on renting a lane at a bowling alley?
Alot of craft stores offer workshops on weekends where you only pay for supplies. It makes quite a memory when you make something together.
Museums are fun too. Art museums are a great chance for conversation, ans science museums are just plain fun.
Anywhere you go don't forget to ask for your student discount!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 April 2010):
Good God girl at 6 months he REALLY should have done something with you and actually paid for it. I'd take another look at your relationship.
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