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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey guys,ok so me and my bf have been having sex for quite a while now and it's good. But we want to take it to the next level. And I was just wondering is there any special things he can do to me that will make me cum? We both really want me to be able to but we have tried and it hasn't happened yet. Does anyone have any tips on how we could make it happen? I think I have been close and it has kind of felt like i have except nothing came out.So tips and advice please!!Thanksxx Reply to this Question
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reader, Nobodies Perfect +, writes (1 April 2010):
Hi there honey, making a woman cum is what ever male strives for when having sexual intercourse with a female, it is almost an obsession of men to make a woman cum, mainly because it is taboo, we don't learn about it in school and it is up to each individual to learn how to do it. I will tell you how I have managed to make some of my past partners cum but each woman is different and fine tuning this list to suit your needs is advised. Start of slow, don't rush into penetrative sex and start thrusting at a fast pace, just start slow and sensual. Have your partner enter you with slow thrusts at various depths and angles. Whilst he is doing this tell him which thrust speed pleasure you the most and what angles arouses you. Second his aim is to pleasure you, make him make you his number priority, as it will make you feel less masculine, if you feel masculine then you will be less likely to enjoy intercourse and less likely to cum. Have him mix up the intercourse with external stimulation, the majority of women don't cum through having penetrative vaginal sex.In fact the majority of women climax through clitoral stimulation. So whilst having sexual intercourse it's a good idea to stimulate her clitorous at the same time, by having oral sex. Obviously this will increase your chance of having an orgasm. Hope this helped luv Nobodies Perfect
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): well, as you are a girl likely nothing will come out. We don't generally do it like guys so.
The most important thing is for you to be comfortable with him, and to able to stop worrying about what faces youre making, or how you look in this light, etc. Just relax.
Many women cant do it from just sex alone. My first orgasm was when I was on top because I could control the speed, depth etc. Try out some new positions. One that always works for me: doggie with me using my hand for manual stimulation.
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