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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I met my boyfriend online, and we have been together for 17 months. We communicated a lot through texts to get aquainted before we met 3 weeks later. I felt I was already deeply conected to him. He also confided he was falling for me. I love him deeply, and I am commited to him. He has some trust issues that we're working on. When I'm in the shower he will look into my cell. He made sure he has access to my email account. I had a facebook which he disliked (I had the profile before we met) he insisted I delete it. I told him I did, but truthfully I didn't. He created a secret facebook profile to "check up on me" and demanded it be deleted. I gave him my password, but he still wanted it gone so he deleted my account. Now, lately he's been a tad aloof. Not texting as much. He insists its because he's busier at work. He's been mentioning a female co-workers name more. That she suggests he go to a doctor because he has been feeling ill lately. Also she mails things for him at work. He was married to an older woman before and this co-worker is 55ish and he's 42 (same age as his ex wife) my question is could he be so jealous perhaps because he's guilty of something? Could something be transpiring between them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010): He has trust issues..maybe women have cheated on him in the past or something? Who knows, but do what your heart tells you..do the right thing for yourself. It's hard to tell someone to up and leave the person they have grown to love and care about..that person has to make a des. on their own.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 April 2010):
Dump him. This is beyond jealously. This is control. And yes, there could be something going on at work. Men are rubbish at hiding affairs, because their behaviour so obviously changes. There could be something going on. But even if there wasn't, this is a man who has more than just trust issues.
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