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When you love someone shouldn't it be like fire? Not just warm?

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Question - (16 September 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 September 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have bestfriend.

we were friend for 2 year and a half years.

When we have any problem we alway talk to each other.

For now He is the one who know me best..and same to him (He also said that I'm the girl he can say everything)

but a few month ago.. I have a nightmare and then call him..

after that I realized by myself that our relationship is kind of strange.

I'm glad every time he tell me his problem and every time he asked me to go out with him.

but I have fallen in love before.. and I know that it should be like a fire but everytime I'm with him It's like just warm wind...

I'm not so sure what if I have that kind of feeling for him.

He is special for me like somene in my family that I will be his couselor for the rest of my life.

He's nice,lovely ,care about my feeling but sometime can't trust and his personality is too sweet.I need someone that older and can be a leader in my life.

We fight a lot (Hahaha). and He alway make me mad (I'm so patient with other people but not him)

I'm not sure what I feel about him (=_=)

and the last thing I'm just 20 years old what if I dating with him now. and then? 10 years after?? I will have only him??? (=_=) I'm not sure I can do it if we broke up we will lost this relationship. He is too important that I don't want to lose him.

We still seeking other person to be girl/boyfriend..

What should I do?

If I should wait untill I know my true feeling?

but it's may took long time to know and he may dating with someoneelse?

* I have asked him before but not in a serious way that he will be my boyfrined or not??

He said that...Please seeking someoneelse bf look at me (Hahahaha) if you can't find anyoneelse when we are in the proper age.. He may think about marry me.

TT-TT (sad...)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2012):

There may be nothing between you but dont be too sure of that. I was stuck between two guys earlier in the year. One I felt fire for and the other was just warm but then one day something happened and I was going to lose the warm guy and I was just soooo terrified. Now he's my boyfriend and I'm totally in love with him and couldnt be happier. The guy was was my "fire" is now just a friend.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2012):

Thank for answer.. U think like what I have think

Today he call me

I asked "U call me for what?"

He said he have nothing to do...

Like a cute puppy ^v^

=_= everybody said that we look like a lovers.

now I will choose a safty zone for comfortable

Maybe let the the time froof everything

Hehehe

:D

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A female reader, fishdish United States +, writes (16 September 2012):

fishdish agony auntRight now I think the feelings are just not there to jeopardize the relationship over. While you two seem like you're a little more than friends, you're still more like friends than like lovers, and so I would leave him in the friendzone.

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