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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey, so I had sex with my bf twice last night for the first time. We've tried a couple weeks ago and it hurt too much so we stopped. But then last night it really hurt the first time, so i told him to go slow so he did. He was in about 3/4 the way. I told him to stop cuz it hurt so much so he did. We relaxed and stuff and my vagina hurt a bit. I went to the bathroom and it bled just a little bit. Then when I was feeling all better we did it again. It hurt a bit in the beginning but once he was in it was fine. He kept going in and out. It didn't really feel like anything.. it didn't hurt but it didn't feel good either.. but it felt good for him, cuz he busted. (he used a condom). (oh and he fingered me good before all those times.) Then today he fingered me and it hurt a little bit. so my question is when will it start to feel good? and when will it stop hurting? I'm like craving it but I want it to feel good.. oh and don't tell me I'm too young for this. I'm very wise and I know what I'm doing. I'm definitly ready for this.
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reader, TrillianMcRed  +, writes (15 June 2008):
What I've heard from a lot of my girlfriends who've done it regularly is that it takes a while for a woman to start to have an orgasm during sex.. So ask your boyfriend to go really slow if you wanna climax at the same time..
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (15 June 2008):
 Hey doll,
For me and my man, it took us a MONTH to even get the whole thing inside of me!!! That was a loooong month, let me tell you! After we finally had success with that, it took probably another week or so for me to really start enjoying myself.
It's normal to bleed a bit - maybe he just got a little farther in on the second try.
Don't worry sweetness, you'll enjoy it eventually. In the meanwhile, have a lot of fun getting there and make sure that your boyfriend is extremely patient, takes things extremely slow and spends lots of time getting you primed up for lovin' (oh yes, that means a good 45 minutes of oral - or whatever else floats your boat).
Enjoy every minute, because eventually it'll pay off!
xx India
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionby the way, the second time it bled more.
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