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writes: me and my boyfriend have recently been watchin porn togther before having sex and my boyfriend likes to watch lesbian porn because it turns him on alot more, but recently ive noticed that i quite enjoy watchin lesbian porn and it turns me on alot too, does this mean im a lesbian?
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reader, Dom123 +, writes (17 July 2009):
NEVER! I watch lesbian porn all the time it makes me turn my self on. If it is really bugging you, then try and have sex DURING porn. groan at it and say oooh thats good. Lightly bounce up and down. remove your bra and top then turn round to hface him. Kiss him all over and undress him. It will take your mind off it!
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (15 June 2008):
 No, you're not a lesbian! So you enjoy watching girl on girl - it's hot. Enjoy and don't worry.
If anything, you're bisexual...or bi-curious. Either way, there's nothing wrong with it.
If you feel like you want to explore another side of your sexuality, then go right on ahead. Just be safe!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (15 June 2008):
 No, no, no. You're not a lesbian. Not unless you're finding your boyfriend sort of physically repulsive and you lust after women.
I've heard this from SO MANY CHICKS - that they prefer lesbian porn. I have theorized that this is because you can visualize yourself more easily. You can connect to these women AS a woman. Or, perhaps it's because there's not any guys who are running the show, who are kind of acting like controlling scumbags at times... woman can be a lot more laidback and seem to be having more fun.
And finally, chicks always make the most noise in porn. They are very vocal. And that, my friend, is always sexy. Hearing another woman make noise makes me kind of want to make noise too, you know?
You may be bisexual, don't rule it out if you find yourself wanting to experiment. And that can be totally fun, but just make sure that you're single when having your fun. (And, if you really get into it, make sure that you're safe. Women have STI's too!!)
Don't worry, sweetness. You're completely normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): Hey! #Same exact situation here! My bf likes lesbian porn way more than straight porn adn i get pretty turned on by it! But im not lesbian, ive never been attracted to a girl in real life or anything. I think its jsut the erotic sexuality that is a turn on, and lesbian porn tends to be more about pleasuring the woman than some jock guy blowing his load... which is kinda lame from a girls point of view!
Dont worry honey its totally normal to be turned on by girl on girl porn! I know most of my friends are anyways! :-D
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reader, kelly888 +, writes (14 June 2008):
NOW if you want to explore that side of your sexuality,then go ahead. I mean,being a lesbian,bi or straight has no baring on you as a person,right?If you feel the desire to explore then do so.Just be safe and have fun exploring.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (14 June 2008):
 I really doubt that it makes you lesbian. At best, it MIGHT make you bisexual. In reality, watching the images of somebody in the heat of passion might start your brain's endorphin rush... think of it as a tool that you two use to get in the mood. That might all there is to it.
Now if you want to explore that side of your sexuality, then go ahead. I mean, being a lesbian, bi or straight has no baring on you as a person, right? If you feel the desire to explore then do so. Just be safe and have fun exploring.
Another suggestion: this has been one of the typically popular questions on this site. You might want to try searching for other responses to similar questions posted here.
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