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Hi I'm from Bangalore India.. I'm 22 years old and have had a history of bad relationships (either they were psychos or had tragic endings). I'm not a qualified agony aunt. But I try to be empathetic at most times and love to help people out. Well, I've lived 22 years of my life under almost every circumstance possible and have done 2 years of psychology. I've been to a shrink too a few times and well, I think if someone needs help, I'd be there! Another thing about me! I LOVE MUSIC :)

My ex bf did drugs, he beat me and he lied. So why do I still feel for him now that I have a new bf??

Q.   ok well, i was with my ex for about a year and a half, he cheated on me,beat me, lied and does drugs, when i was with him i became depressed and never ate. but i fell in love with him and there wasn't nothing i wouldn't do for him. my family ...

A.   17 June 2008: I have gone through the exact same thing.. I broke up with my ex because he was so aggressive and so much of a druggie and I still loved him for a long time.. It takes a while for the love to fade away.. Besides letting time heal, what you can do is ... (read in full...)

When will sex feel good for me?

Q.   Hey, so I had sex with my bf twice last night for the first time. We've tried a couple weeks ago and it hurt too much so we stopped. But then last night it really hurt the first time, so i told him to go slow so he did. He was in about 3/4 the way. ...

A.   15 June 2008: What I've heard from a lot of my girlfriends who've done it regularly is that it takes a while for a woman to start to have an orgasm during sex.. So ask your boyfriend to go really slow if you wanna climax at the same time.. ... (read in full...)

Hairy arms making me self-conscious! What do I do?

Q.   I have really hairy arms. A boy in my Spanish class even commented on it. I have light blonde hair so my arms hairs arent dark or anything, thers just a lot of them. this makes me really self conscious and i find myself hiding my arms under the ...

A.   15 June 2008: Hey The only reason I'm replying is because of your last line about sparking controversy.. It is very normal to get a wax as a woman and there's nothing to be ashamed about it.. Infact, once you start in a few years you'll be bragging about your ... (read in full...)

How do you control jealousy?

Q.   My problem is jealousy. I've always been a jealous person, ever since I was about 5. I'm 15 now, and nothing has changed. The main thing that makes me most jealous is when I see my friends having a great time without me. It just makes me feel lik...

A.   15 June 2008: We're all jealous through life.. I get jealous when my friends meet up without me.. The best way to deal with it is find a hobby with yourself.. Trust me, you're 15 when you get older you'll yearn to find that time with yourself and you won't.. If ... (read in full...)

Bullied. Told I'm ugly. Told I'm worthless. I know I am none of that, but getting over it isn't easy

Q.   Ok here it is. I am 17 and 18 in november. My problem is i was bullied from ages 8 - 15. I was told i was ugly, i was worthless and that no one wanted me. I used to think this girl was my friend but now resent her. i havent seen her in almost 3 ...

A.   15 June 2008: Hey.. We all go through this as teenagers.. There are several reasons for it.. Physically, our bodies go through a zillion changes at this time.. It's always positive to look in that mirror and think of yourself as beautiful.. I never did and went ... (read in full...)

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