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*x__confused__xx
writes:ok i have this boy problem an its about makin love.... ive done it but hes always the worker i don't do anything how do i move or...... Reply to this Question
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reader, xx__confused__xx +, writes (28 January 2010):
xx__confused__xx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you....yes i understand that...i kno we mite not be with each other in the future....but i love him now....today was r 2 year anniversary. :)
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reader, Boombadaboom  +, writes (28 January 2010):
 I'm answering to your first reply:
Years from now, after you finish highschool or maybe even while still on school, you both might change, become very different people and grow apart. You'll feel very different about each other than you do now because you'll BE very different. A very little number of people stay like they are at your age and there's a very small chance you'll grow into two people who could still be insanely in love with each other. All I'm trying to say is that you might not spend your whole life with him and I hope you'll see that before you get attached to him with all you are. You need your own chance to develop into the woman you want to be with all your heart. It's just the age that worries me, that's all. Since then, I myself have changed an incredible amount and I'm so different from who I used to be. It's the same with almost everyone I remember.
But... to be honest, you two do make a chance, a very little one but probably the best one. So I kind of admire you a little bit :)
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reader, xx__confused__xx +, writes (26 January 2010):
xx__confused__xx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits kinda wat im looking for but i jus wanna wat i can do to make it more of a pleasure for him...i jus don't want him doin all the work all the time...experimenting is good rite??
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reader, xx__confused__xx +, writes (25 January 2010):
xx__confused__xx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut i know that i love him...we've been dating for almost 2 years an he means the world to me i would do anything for him an he would do anything for me..i know what love is...an i know i love him...hes my world we share everything wit each other....hes my best friend an my partner...we're serious about each other an are thinking about spending the rest of our lives together...we have fought..but we can't go a day without thinking about one another...we can't not talk to each other for a day...we always call each other..an were inseparable at school...i love him an he loves me...so yes i know what love is..i know i am in love...so when we have sex we make love not just have sex..i know it because i can feel it..i know its rite....he's the one i turn to when there's something wrong an hes the one that always stays by my side no matter what...i honestly don't know what i would do without him
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): Agreed- you're too young and this is what happens...
You need to learn how to communicate, talk and both share your feelings. Give each other direction, teach each other, play with it. If you're uncomfortable with that, wait to have sex until you are OK with it. Otherwise you may develop some habits that will be hard to overcome when you're ready.
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reader, Boombadaboom +, writes (25 January 2010):
you're 13-15 years old, you're not supposed to be doing that good yet. Connect with each other in another way. Love is more important than sex will ever be.
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