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writes: My boyfriend and I had sex but I don't think he went all the way because every time we have sex I do not feel a thing. What do you think the problem is?Wondering Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2005): This is not necessarily anything to worry about. I don't know much about erectile dysfunction so can't rule it out, but I do know that I've been having sex for years, with more than one person and I don't really feel much during penetration. This varies from person to person. As you have sex more often you will get to know whether he has fully entered you or not and also what pleases you and turns you on. Like many women you may not get nearly as much out of intercourse alone as he does, but if you make sure you ahve lots of forepley and experiment with masturbation and oral sex, you will find out what really gets you and also give yourself the best chances of feeling him inside you (more likely if you're turned on). Also you could try exercising your pelvic wall muscles - I can't remember what this is called but you will find information if you google it. Personally I've never gone for this but some women (and men!) find it helps. My main advice it talk to each other and be individuals - don't believe everything you see on TV.
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reader, NordicBeauty +, writes (6 July 2005):
Your story is a bit vague with details, but it sounds as if your boyfriend has a small penis or erectile dysfunction.The other issue might be a lack of internal sensitivity in your body.I would suggest visiting a doctor, having a full physical and some tests done...the doctor can make a proper diagnosis and if the problem is not with your body, then it's definitely your boyfriend's problem.When a guy goes "all the way" you will definitely feel it !I advise suggesting to him to also visit a doctor & explore the problem and solutions.I hope everything improves for you.All the best,
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reader, freedom +, writes (3 July 2005):
There could be a few different things to this. What do you mean when you say you don't feel anything? Are you not feeling him entereing you, or you aren't feeling him when he is inside you? You should definitely be feeling him entering you. If it is when he is inside you, maybe you are too wet but trust me when I say that this isn't a problem. Try a different position, like with you on top, to help some of your moisture escape. If this isn't the problem either to say in the nicest way possible, maybe his member is too small for your canal. This is not a problem either, and can be dealt with by trying different positions. I have had sex with someone who was very small, and I wasnt sure we had even had sex. I also experience a lot of moisture especially with a lot of foreplay, and not lying on my back the whole time helps tremendously. I hope this helps!
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