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writes:Hi there! I have a Q. When me and my bf are horny/playing/having sex he loves me talking dirty which is fair enough but he always wants me to talk about him with another man every time we do have sex. Whenever i talk about him with another man he comes way quicker, hes loves sucking my dildo and putting it inside of him on one occasion when we were drunk he even named a man who he would like to have sex with. I truely love him! We have a really gd sex life! We get on great and he treats me like a princess! But im scared incase hes gay? We've been together almost three years and this has been happening within the last year.Any ideas? DO u think hes gay or do you think im just worrying over nothin?
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reader, MutantKitten  +, writes (18 January 2009):
 I agree 100% with Elizawarder.
He's gay or bi, and having trouble admitting it, even to himself.
If he's bi, there's no reason you can't continue your relationship, but it would be best to have this all in the open. You definitely need a chat.
Having constant gay fantasies is not something straight men do.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (18 January 2009):
i think it is just a fantasy that he has. you can't tell me that you have never had a fantasy of being with another woman. the reality is he will probably never actually go with a man, it;s just the fantasy.
you may have to talk to him about it ask him why he likes the idea and if he has these feelings alot?
maybe he is bi and has had a sexual experience with a man in the past? don't see his fantasy as something awful. just find out why he likes it and then you will get down to the route of it.
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reader, elizawarder +, writes (18 January 2009):
it sounds like he might be bi, which is often quite difficult for men to admit. would it bother you if he was? talk to him about it, and reassure him about it, and try and get it all out in the open. He still loves having sex with you so dont get too worried, it just sounds like a talk is in order!
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reader, SmoothCoffee64  +, writes (18 January 2009):
 Hi,Everyone has fetishes and fantasies or being with someone else man or women. It's ok to fantasize, but don't forget reality.Shakespare, once said "To I be true to one self."Ask your boyfriend the same question. Then you can decide what you think is best for you.Good LuckBrownCoffee64
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): nothing has actually changed! Were just as loved up as always and we still get on great. I cant think of any changes. Ive brought it up before and he got really upset and denied he was gay and said that he thought it was a fantasy me and him both wanted, after this the gay talk stopped for a couple of months but has started yet again. What should i do?
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