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writes: When my girlfriend gives me a blowjob, I can never get off. All the times I get right to the point that I would normally get off but it won't happen. What could be the problem? I love it when she does it, it feels good. It just wont finish it. Is it that my penis is too smart or is there something wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2005): I had the same thing, I had a hard time getting comfortable with her. I was worried that I would make a stupied face or she would find funny how I moved or acted. So I put a pillow over my face and it helped me to relax enough to get off.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (19 October 2005):
 Relaxation could be the key. Next time it happens, try not to concentrate on actually having an orgasm and just enjoy the sensations. Explain to your girlfriend what you will do;just relax and allow her to do what she does. Don't try to force an orgasm and calm your mind while it is happening. Think of pleasurable and erotic thoughts to do with your girlfriend and perhaps you will achieve the end result you want.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2005): I think it takes a very special technique for your partner to bring you to climax with oral sex. If you think of all the vigorous action that is actioned to manually reach climax, what is going on inside the mouth has to be pretty dynamic. It is possible that some women, through no fault of their own, do not have the understanding of what is required.
How would you feel about offering your partner some advise on how it might work for you both?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2005): I had this problem and my exscuse is that I wasnt worked up enough.
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reader, QOTU +, writes (19 October 2005):
 Experiment until you eventually find your own little "way" of finishing the job.
Works with every couple, mate! -- QOTU
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2005): You may be worried it's making your girlfriend feel like a failure, reassure her first that she is doing a good job and you love what she is doing. Then you should just switch off and enjoy and try not to make yourself cum. The more you think about it the more pressure you put on yourself to come up with the goods. If it's not going to happen just move onto something else like pleasuring her etc. Also ask her to press/stroke the bit between your testicles and your bottom. Some men love this and it works everytime with my boyfriend.
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reader, wishes +, writes (19 October 2005):
 I had a boyfriend that would never cum in my mouth or when I gave him a hand job. Yet he would cum when he gave himself a hand job! He could never explain it, nobody had even been able to make him. He came in my mouth a few times but that was only if he would jerk himself off while it was in my mouth. I got used to it, and would still do it cause I knew it made him feel good. Ive had other boyfriends and Ive had no problems. Just one of those things I guess.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2005): don't feel to down on yourself. my boyfriend has the same problem. so your not alone. but we don't know what causes it either. keep your hopes up though.
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