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writes:my girlfriend is having trouble with her family and is always upset and wants time to herself what should i do i want to help her through but when i tell her i am here to help she gets more upset Reply to this Question
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reader, firstlovelastlove  +, writes (26 February 2011):
 I agree with GeeGee255 I think she's embarrassed by her. Let her know you'll always be there for her if and when she feels like talking about things with her family. Sometimes people get to thinkin they're the only ones with an 'embarrassing' family. Give her some space and I think she'll open up to you. In the mean time I would make sure her time with you away from her family is fun so she feel like she can take a vacation from them any time with you. I wish you all the best. Above all, when she finally opens up to you about her family do not judge, just listen. I wish you all the best.
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (26 February 2011):
 Maybe she is embarrased by her family troubles. Maybe she doesn't think its fair to get you involved. It really doesn't matter why.
All you need to know and understand is that she is asking you for the space she needs to deal with it on her own for right now. And until she tell you differently, you should respect her wishes.
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