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writes:Me and my BF are totally in love with each other for the past 3 years.I'm the only child in my family; most of the time im selfish but my man is not like that (he has a sister) i always get what i want, 3 yrs ago i want him as my boyfriend and now i have him, everything in my life has been like that! I know this sounds really bad!! honestly im very very selfish! My man really loves me maybe that one of the reasons his with me tolarating me big time and if he dosen't do or agree for what i do or say i tend to start a fight which i know it bad but i do it any way may be because im too bitchy is the reason. I always tell my self i must be nice to him and all but when he dosen't agree... i turn out to be this nasty person....i can't help being like that... i've told this to my man yet he still loves me and want to be with me...i feel really bad about it. Sometimes when he goes to hang out with his friends, he asks me...i say ok but when he goes to his friends.. i turn out to be this person..then we start fighting, all his friends hate me big time. I don't have many friends, i don't get along much with ppl. I block everyone out..i never share my feelings nor thoughts with any one accept my bf. I have soo much inside me... im really sorry to write like this.When my bf don't do what i like or want i tend to accuse him of stuff...which he has never done. Do you think i need to get medical help? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (8 March 2008):
 I do think you at least need to see a councilor or a psychologist.
A psychologist can do some diagnostics and possibly find out why you exibit this kind of behavior and perscribe a treatment.
A councilor can guide you through some things to help you alter this behavior. I hope this helps. Doc
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 March 2008):
 No. You already know what your problem is. All you need is to act as you know you should.
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reader, Entirely Unique  +, writes (8 March 2008):
 It does sound like you are holding some issues, maybe theres something in you or your life that is making you lash out no matter how much you don't want to, as you know your boyfriend loves you and has allowed your behaviour in the past you then subconsiously know you can get away with this and continue to do it.
Fact is theres only so much someone can take and there will come a point when your boyfriends tolerance level is tested and that's when you could lose him so it's better you address this issue before it's too late.
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