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female
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30-35,
*ouLee
writes: Well, i haven't had a boyfriend in a while now, he dumped me and i took it quite badly to be honest..and ever since then i can't seem to keep my eyes on that one special person.. I mean, i like his mate Jamie but i also like a few other guys but not so much i want something serious.Arghh what is wrong with me at the moment?!!I really want to give a relationship a go but, i can't make my mind up on who i really like. Please help? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Entirely Unique +, writes (8 March 2008):
I think maybe you're looking for 'someone, anyone' and viewing most guys as potential 'relationship' material instead of taking your time, getting to know new people and forming something deeper and more meaningful with someone (which will come natural with the right person)and will make you lots of new friends along the way.
You will always find what your heart desires when you least expect it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): Here is a thought, why don't you just try dating a number of different guys and see if any of them want to take it a step further, it is really up to the guy to make things serious....you cannot force the issue and besides men like the chase so play a little hard to get but not too hard to get....Don't focus on landing a serious relationship or you will come off desperate, guys can smell that a mile away and they won't ask you out again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): Here is a thought, why don't you just try dating a number of different guys and see if any of them want to take it a step further, it is really up to the guy to make things serious....you cannot force the issue and besides men like the chase so play a little hard to get but not too hard to get....Don't focus on landing a serious relationship or you will come off desperate, guys can smell that a mile away and they won't ask you out again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): Here is a thought, why don't you just try dating a number of different guys and see if any of them want to take it a step further, it is really up to the guy to make things serious....you cannot force the issue and besides men like the chase so play a little hard to get but not too hard to get....Don't focus on landing a serious relationship or you will come off desperate, guys can smell that a mile away and they won't ask you out again!
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