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writes: im really hurt over how my ex cheated on me. we had been together for 6 years and both enjoyed our time together. i had been in a relationship with him at school and 10 years later we met up and started to date. he is now 34 and im 33. it all seemed perfect, he was so kind, loving and complimentary to me and i was totally devoted and in love. he has 2 children from previous relationships. 2 years ago we started to have difficulties but as far as i was aware, remained faithful. Out of the blue, a woman came to my door and told me she had been with him for 5 years, she was able to recount some things that she couldn't have known unless this was true. she was wearing a friendship ring from him. he confessed in tears and told me he was sorry and wanted me. im so hurt but dont feel i could ever trust him again. 9 months on he is still texting me. i dont feel like i even know him and that he was acting with me all along. how do i get over this and repair the emotional damage he has caused. i dont feel like i want another relationship ever again. please help me!
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reader, Sexybum  +, writes (1 March 2006):
 It could help you is you let him know how much damage he has done. You say he is still texting you well you could tell him you want him to stop contacting you or you could change your number. The more he contacts you the more he digs up them raw emotions you are trying to deal with and he has already done enough damage let alone cause more!!!
Call in friends and family to see you through. Treat yourself, pherhaps get some massages done by a hunky masseuse. This will help ignite any passion you might have. You know put yourself out there. You never know what is around the corner. Its very unlikely to be anothe rpig like the man you were seeing before. He was incredibly selfish and undoubtedly damaged your self confidence, but don't let him ruin your life or fun or passion. YOU'RE TOO NICE FOR GUYS LIKE THAT!!
Cut all ties, pick yourself up, change your hair, do whatever it takes to get yourself up and running again! The ball is in your hands now. Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2006): im only 21 but kind of in the same situation.I was with my ex for 5yrs in a half when he cheated. 8 m. later were both still in love with eachother and theres so much tension when were ever around eachother. I think that if he truly seems sorry and has been pursuing your forgiveness for this long he might deserve another chance. Think about yourself first and if he really is the man you want to be with forever.
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