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writes: Why do i find it difficult to read a woman especially when i get emotionally involved with them? I treat them way to high, respect them, even adore them but most of the times i get disappointed to find them to be ill-suited for the kind of treatment i give to them. They change their mind so easily, when do i know they are honest and when they are lying? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (10 March 2007):
 Why is this such a problem for you. You make is sound like you are paying such a high price to make a woman happy. I treat them way to high? respect them? adore them? what is going on here? If i had been on a date with someone who spoke about me in this manner i would think i had a lucky escape. I can understand why you are not getting any where here. I think your heart is in the right place but you need to lose some of the attitude. It is normal to have respect for someone when you go out with them. Adore them - why do you adore them? why can you just not be yourself and treat them as you would one of your friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007): Your question is quite broad and vague, but the suggestion I have for you is to trust women until they give you a reason not to, and even though disappointing, either confront it head on to check that you fully understand the situation, and then decide if she was lying or just not giving you what you expected, these are not always one and the same thing. Communication is the key to matters of trust.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007): I think you're generalising rather too much here. Not all women are like this. What reasons do they give for rejecting you? If it has happened more than once with the same reason perhaps it's not the fact that "all women are liars" fault?
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