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writes: I've been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months now. Should i be worried that we haven't said I love you to each other yet? I dont think i love him yet though, but i really like him and enjoy being with him. Is there a certain amount of time i should wait to see if there's something really there or just move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2006): If you dont love him, then dont lie to him. But I wouldnt say that three months is very long.
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (5 June 2006):
 Three months is generally not long enough to exchange "I love you", especially if you don't think you love him.
I think you need to look at the relationship and decide if it has a future and how much you care about him - the love may grow or it may not.
If you have too many doubts and don't think this man is right for you, perhaps it is time to say good bye.
Otherwise, continue to enjoy the relationship and hopefully, the love will come with time.
Good luck
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reader, Mother hen +, writes (5 June 2006):
Do you know what you want in a guy? is it him? does he "fit" with you ? Does he fulfill your needs? and you his? do you know what they are? Love usually develops after you have some really good times together and you make a great "team" and you complement each other, not necessarily verbally, but you just seem to be a great couple. Unless you know yourself very well, I think 3 months is not enough time to explore the potential. Are you bored? If there's no real sparks or solid attraction, why do you care to hear 3 words?
I think you know the answer. Good luck.
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