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writes:When a guy invites a girl to his house, does that basically mean he just wants sex even though we're close friends? He's an older man (probably close to 50) if that means anything; he's not some young horny teen. I just want to know what his intentions are - he's been flirting with me a lot and I want to know if he's inviting me just to get to know me better in a more intimate setting or he just wants sex.
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reader, eddie +, writes (9 January 2009):
 The question about if he wants sex is one that can not be answered. The problem is that may men are just not opposed to sex. They can have sex when ever.
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reader, Austinalive  +, writes (9 January 2009):
Perhaps i'm looking at the worst part of him. In my opinion he wants sex, and he's clever. You may not want to have anything with him, but if you go he'll slowly induce you to change your mind. Maybe in some weeks you'll accept him... don't know.
good luck.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 January 2009):
 Can't say for sure, but I think since he is older he might just wants you too see him at home in his environment. You can usually tell by the first 15 min. what he's got up his sleeve lol
Just don't let him pour too much alcohol on you.
If you want to hang out with him then do it, and if the subject goes to sex you can always say what you think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009): I've known him for close to five years now. We've had lunch a couple times...nothing too "date"-y but we've gotten together quite a few times.
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (9 January 2009):
 Of course! but not always JUST to have sex (it would certainly be on his mind), it's simply that he likes you and wants to take things further (the next step). He wants to hang out with you and take it easy. Making friends is just the beginning.
So yeah, hang out and see what happens he might just want to be nice and make you dinner then watch a movie, taking things slowly.
If you don't feel ready, just let him know (this is important). However, know that If you do this, then, he will know that in the future you "may" be ready. which is enough to give him hope. Otherwise, if your really not interested in him like that, just make it clear so he doesn't build any hopes.
The ball's all in your court right now.
Good luck :)
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (9 January 2009):
 In my opinion, it is impossible for us to suppose that he just wants sex. That would very probably be one reason, but maybe he would also like a relationship. If you are really interested, and you know him fairly well, why not? But has he also asked you out for dinner or for other nice date first? You might want to spend more social time together before you go to his place alone.
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