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writes:What's wrong with me i feel like I've lost the plot, I have such strong feelings for my boyfriend and feel so down at the minute, I don't feel like his feelings for me are as strong. He has kids and i understand i come second to them but just want some sign he is happy with me. We've been together 11 months, not met kids yet i feel as though i need to hear from him and be with him a desire but he doesn't seem to need the same Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): Hi love,
I understand your depression, You dont no were you stand for a start, are you involved in his life at all does he take you places and treat you as his girlfriend. Or is it just to his place 4 times a week, because between us girls i wouldnt have that and if thats how it is then im not suprised your down.. If you cant get hold of him and he has'nt got intouch after your text then its time to do some serious thinking. This is having the opposite affect being with someone is supposed to make you happy, And my love you most def are not. You have to talk and i mean get it all out in the open how you are feeling and if nothing changes hunny your going to have to make a choice. Do you want to go on like this forever or do you want to start living for you, Have you got a mate who you can talk to? You really need someone at the moment love and i no how down you are it would get anyone down. But you must not let someone leave you in limbo we all have to no were we stand at the end of the day PLEASE be strong have that talk when you do get the chance and see if your relationship will make YOU happy as well as your partner there are two of you in this.... ok hunny YOU TAKE CARE AND MAIL ME IF YOU WANT LOTS OF LOVE TO YOU XXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe lives about half hour from me. I see him about 4 times a week I usually go to him as i live with parents and there is more privacy at his. I haveent heard from him since sunday eve I sent him a text last night saying i wasnt feeling well and could he contact me when he could I know he had a bbq last night and i think he left his phone at home but thought he would have made some contact
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): Hi love.
After your followup....
You havent heard from him in how long? how far away do you live from him and does he contact you often? i see now why your not feeling well, id like to help if you would leave some more info id be more than happy to talk with you xxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhis kids live very far away and he only gets to see them once a month
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007): Hi love, You havent lost the plot your in love and your all upside down, you have been together 11 months and still yet to meet the children, is he a hands on dad as that is a good thing but children do take so much of your time and it is so hard sometimes for both sides in a relationship to have the quality time that you are so craving at the moment, You need to sit down together and discuss how you are both feeling, You need to no were you stand as you really cant go on like this as it sounds to me as you are getting depressed love, try a talk then at least you no were you stand and dont be scared to explain how you feel. Its always better to no even if its not what you want to hear as you will then be able to put things into perspective and move on either way. I hope this relationship works out for you and you feel alot better soon TAKE CARE LOTS OF LOVE XXXXXXX
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reader, neonpinkngooey  +, writes (18 June 2007):
 I can understand where he is coming from. it is a commendable thing to keep his children as his first priority, but why can't he have you meet his children? if you want to meet them, let him know that because they are a big part of his life, you would like to get to know them. maybe he doesn't realize that he is hurting you. you should be upfront with him, and let him know that you want to be treated with more affection.
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