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writes:I’m really happy that I came across this page because I’ve been looking for someone who can help me. Well, I thought that I was over my ex boyfriend but apparently that’s not the case. It’s that I just get manage to get over the fact of why he left me and the way that he did it in. We had a small issue with him stepping up to his friends and telling them not to bring around this girl who caused a problem between him and I. I thought that was done, even a week before we were going to make 7 months, he was more excited than I was. However, he breaks up with me 2 days before telling me that he doesn’t like me anymore, that he can’t live a lie, that he’s not ready for a relationship. He even tells me that I can be with whatever guy I liked before him and had given up for him. He also told me that he ignored my calls. We didn’t speak for 3 months because I told him that I didn’t want to see him. I was really hurt because I did so much for him, and helped him with low self esteem due to his weight issues. I felt crushed. His/roommates had invited to a party that they were having at their apt. and the same girl that caused all the drama was invited too. The party didn’t go through but it’s the fact that my ex didn’t even bother to say “nah leave her alone, I know she cares and I don’t want to hurt her.” Then, we met up to talk because it had been 3 months of no talking or seeing each other and we had both been invited to another friend’s party. We figured to kill the tension since we were both going to go. That day, he told me that he couldn’t stop thinking about me and he couldn’t get me off his mind. Then, 2 weeks later on another ocassion online, he rubbed it in my face that he had left me because he simply didn’t like me anymore. The following month, he called me to tell me that he now works right next to me which was weird because no one knew were I was now working and there’s no sign of my office outside because it’s not part of the university. I began to think to myself, “Why would I bother to call someone that I don’t care about to tell them that I now work right next to them?” What’s with this guy? Please help me get my mind in place because all this back and forth is what makes me still have him on my mind.
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reader, tammye17 +, writes (10 January 2009):
 Hello, i understand yor pain i went throught the same exact hing with my 4 year bf. This guy sounds as if he is playing games with you. you must be beautiful and you dont deserve this treatment. he obiously has a self esteem issue, hes confused but you are not a theraphyst or psychologist to figure him out or change him. A girlfrien or Boyfriend is there to support one another and provide happiness to one another. STOP him from hurting you, dont even bother with him, hes dumd and clueless for letting a girl like you go. keep me posted iam here if u need anything. good luck
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