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writes: For the past couple of months I've observed my wife ( forty-seven years old) acting supsicious with her cell phone. She always keeps it close to her even when she goes to bed she puts it on the night stand next to her. I've caught her several times when I arrive home and walk into the kitchen. She's text messaging someone and seems to be a little anxious offering an explanation that she's messaging her female coworker - when I didn't even ask. Anyway out of suspicion and curiousity I figured out a way to find out what number she's been text messaging with and it turns out to be a black guy. I confronted her with why is she acting so suspicious and who this guy was. She claims he's just a friend but it appears she's text messaging him back and forth as many as ten to fifteen times a day. I don't understand why she would be text messaging him. What messages could they be sending back and forth, as friends, that would amount to this many nearly every day ? Should I be worried something's going on here ?Please, as many responses anyone can send. I need help here.
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reader, zeezeezo7 +, writes (21 June 2006):
I'm going through the same thing and it's agony! My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We've had our ups and downs, questions about being too friendly with other people sometimes but we've always managed through it. He swears up and down that this girl at work is not his type, just good buddy type but he wrote to her 32 times TODAY ALONE! I sent him a text and when he came home, he said that he had been too busy to answer me. While it breaks my heart to consider it, my boyfriend (and your wife) are caught up in a dangerous flirtation and just like any form of cheating I feel that once it is compounded with lies and deceipt they no longer care for the one waiting at home anymore. I don't want it to be over, I keep trying to say that it's just fun and flirting, he's honest with me when she texts him but was not honest with how much he writes to her. I found out that he called to tell me he had to work late so I went to the mall to kill some time - guess who was there? My boyfriend. I didn't see her, but the Vikki's Secret bag he was carrying never made it home to me.I hope yours turns out better - I want mine to work, but I shouldn't have to be up at 1:30am crying while he's asleep with his cell phone still in his hand.
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reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (20 June 2006):
 Oh babe, sounds like you could be in trouble here! There is something fishy going on, the sooner it is sorted the better. Maybe try and have it out with her, as 'broken in 2' suggests, maybe ask to see the texts, if she has nothing to hide then she won't mind. If she is hiding something then she will be evasive and try and avoid talking about it. Hope it all works out for you dalrin, take it easy.. x
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reader, broken_in _2 +, writes (20 June 2006):
 Okay, if your worried about your wife and this black guy why dont you just ask her if you can read a few of the text messages that they send between eachother. I'm not talking about watching over her shoulder while she's texting the guy just ask her to open some old text messages that they have sent. This way if she is willing to do it you can see whats truly going on but if she's not then you got something to worry about. So try that and mabe it will help.
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