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writes: hello im 22 i have this friend whos 24, well he's almost more an aquaintance since i hang out with him at most twice a month, and with mutual friends. but i've known him for awhile, and he always teases me and tries to get a rise out of me, making me think he liked me. he has a girlfriend and they're kind of lukewarm together...but i cant shake the feeling when he talks to me (and stares me down, he will eye-lock with me and wont let it go no matter what i do, the strange thing is i can look away at first but then i cant after a minute) that he does like me. he just has this attitude when he talks to me that makes me think he likes me but i cant pin it down. you know when you just get a feeling? its the way he looks at me and talks to me...but i dont know. also, everytime he says something about me thinking he's right and i disagree (im stubborn) he comes back with "i know everything about you".... does it seem im right or am i overthinking things?
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (20 June 2006):
 Remember he has a girlfriend. He is probably just being polite and flirting in a normal manner. Some men are born flirts and cant help themselves, doesnt mean hes going to cheat on his girlfriend. he probably just likes you and likes to have a bit of banter with you and a bit of harmless flirting. I think you could be reading to much into this. Try and find a guy thats unattached to devote your time to, this ones already taken.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2006): Wow I have been in the exact same situation with my friend. If I were you I would just ask him what's going on. If he's your friend you should be able to talk honestly with him. It might be hard to drop that into a conversation but try to make it lighthearted. I said something like 'Hey what's the story with all the flirting games? Don't you have a girlfriend? You're confusing the f*% out me me!' And it sort of forced him to reply without the awkward 'sit-down-heart-to-heart-discussion.' IMHO anyway...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2006): it sounds as if he likes you to me but he might be too afraid to admit it. But if he has a girlfriend and he is fussing over you is he worth it? what about his poor gf?x
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