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writes: Dear Cupid,I am bi which many ppl dont like but I fell in love with this girl. We dated for five months then I, stupidly, broke up with her. Now I miss her alot but she has another girlfriend. She says she still loves me and I know I still love her and she says her current girlfriend is just a "rebound". Should I just move on and forget about her or should I try to get her back? Yours truly,broken_in_2
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reader, broken_in _2 +, writes (11 July 2006):
broken_in _2 is verified as being by the original poster of the question me and my ex girl friend have finally came to an agreement we are going to wait until we are both sure we want to back with eachother and then mabe in the future we might get back together but for now we are just friends
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reader, matron +, writes (25 June 2006):
 If she says this girl is just a rebound, then ask her to give it another go, explain why you finished it and that you realised you loved her after you felt it was too late. Dont give up on her it sounds like there is a good chance that you can work things out. Good luck and be happy x
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (20 June 2006):
 For the time being, you can only assume that she's with the other girl until she shows otherwise (by, for example, breaking up with her new girlfriend). That means you swallow hard, make a mental note about your error, and do your best to move on.
If your ex breaks up with her girlfriend in future, then there might be a chance again, but what's notable about your situation is that your ex tells you that she still loves you, and feels her current relationship is just a rebound, but she's making no effort to end what she's in or to get you back. (Personally, I feel sorry for the Rebound Girl, who doesn't even know she's just a pawn in your ex's chess game.)
There's nothing you can do to "get her back" until and unless she's ready to be "got back", so I suggest you cool your jets and do other things, with the assumption that this is for good. Your ex knows how you feel, so the ball is definitely in her court now.
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